My Friends Left the Group Chat When I Asked Them to Chip In for the Christmas Feast

Friends vanished from the group chat the moment I suggested we all chip in for a NewYears feast.

Maybe you should give them a ring? James watched his wife, Emily, shuffle the Christmas baubles for the third time, sighing. Weve been mates for decades

Whats the point? Emily snapped, slamming the box shut. So they can keep calling me a golddigger? Honestly, Im glad its come to this. Its time to set the record straight.

She hauled the box to the corner of the lounge and lingered by the floortoceiling window. Outside, snow spun in a soft white blanket, covering their garden like a cosy duvet. The view usually soothed her, but tonight her heart felt heavy.

Remember how Megan and Tom were the first to leave last year? Emily wrapped her arms around herself. Oh dear, we have to be up early tomorrow! and we were left cleaning until three in the morning.

James moved closer, slipping his arms around her shoulders.

And their kids smeared the nursery walls with permanent markers.

And Lucy? Emily turned to him. Ill bring the salads! She hauled a couple of jars of Olivier from the supermarket, then vanished with half of my homemade prep. Can I have a taste?

A sting of anger flared in her eyes. She blinked, trying not to cry, and opened the nowsilent chat titled NewYear2025.

You know what hurts most? she whispered. They didnt even ask why. They just walked away like I wasnt worth a single word.

James snatched the phone from her hand and set it on the windowsill.

At least we now know who our true friends are and who were just after our hospitality.

Emily nodded, recalling every past holiday. She always strived for perfectiondays of cooking, endless decorations, meticulously planned gamesonly to hear, What a lovely house you have, and, Lets do the next party at yours.

Remember when Tom complained last year that we hadnt heated the sauna? James smirked. Whats a celebration without a sauna?

Yeah, and he never brought a log, Emily laughed despite herself. Then he spent a week whining that he caught a cold at our place, as if we were to blame.

Night fell, the snowfall thickened, turning their garden into a winter wonderland. Emily switched on the fairy lights draped around the room, bathing the space in a warm, intimate glow.

You know, she said, turning to James, this is the first time in five years well ring in the NewYear just the two of us.

James pulled her close.

Thatll be the best NewYear everno one to impress, just you and me.

Emily chuckled. No kids with crayons on the walls.

And no lets have another round when everyones already exhausted.

She slipped from his embrace and headed to the kitchen.

Speaking of foodwhat shall we make? Just for the two of us?

How about ordering sushi? James suggested. Ive always wanted to toast the year with California rolls, not just a bowl of mushy peas.

Sushi on NewYears? Thats actually brilliantno hours in the kitchen.

She pulled out her phone, opened the delivery app, and scrolled. Look, they even have festive platters. And we can order a bottle of champagne.

Perfect, James peered over her shoulder. Shall we dress the tree?

Absolutely, Emily smiled. This time well hang the ornaments how we like, not how tradition tells us.

The evening slipped by with them stringing tinsel to their favourite songs. No one muttered, My mother always or Thats too bright. They simply did what felt right.

In the week leading up to NewYears, Emilys phone buzzed with messages. Lucy wrote, Maybe well pop over after all? Megan asked, Did you get angry? and Tom, through his wife, said, We could chip in, no big deal.

Emily ignored them. She and James were busy compiling a film list for their marathon, picking board games, and mapping out a quiet holiday for just the two of them.

On 31December, as the clock read eleven, they curled up on the sofa. Sushi lay on the coffee table, champagne flutes glittered, and a classic Home Alone flick played on the telly.

Emily, Ive never felt this calm on NewYears Eve, she murmured, resting her head on Jamess shoulder.

Me neither, he kissed the top of her head. No chaos, no obligations. Just us.

When the chimes struck midnight, they didnt toast loudly. They simply looked at each other, smiled, and clinked glasses. In that instant Emily realised losing old friends wasnt a loss at allit was a gain of freedom, a chance to be herself without anyones expectations.

The phone, switched off since midday, lay forgotten by the hall. They stepped into the new year unburdened by anyone elses demands.

Morning broke bright on 1January. Sunlight filtered through slightly drawn curtains, and for the first time in years Emily awoke feeling truly restedno earlymorning knocks, no frantic cleanup, no childrens cries.

Good morning, James announced at the doorway with a tray. Thought Id bring you breakfast in bed.

Youre my hero, Emily laughed, taking the steaming mug of tea. Its oddly quiet, isnt it?

Exactly, he winked. No empty wrappers, no busted bottles, no dirty dishes.

She sipped, then reached for the phonejust to glance at the missed calls. Six from Megan, four from Lucy, even a private message from Tom.

Emily, whats wrong? Weve been friends forever! Is it really about money?

Maybe well still come? Weve pooled together enough to chip in.

Answer us, were waiting!

James snatched the phone again. Remember our promise? No toxic drama at the start of the year.

Emily nodded, though a knot remained. Years of friendshipcould she really cut it off?

James breathed out, Ive been thinking about the time Tom asked us to help with his house remodel last summer. I spent three weekends with him, wiring things because friends help friends. Then, when we needed a fence installed, he was busy. Same with Megan and Lucyalways there when the partys over, never when the work begins.

Emily frowned. What are you getting at?

Thats not friendship, thats using. Their upset over a simple contribution proves it.

Outside, a car engine rumbled. Emily peered out and saw a familiar black sedan pulling up to the driveway.

No, are they serious? James snapped. Do we really let them in just because they show up?

The door rang, then rang again.

Megan, James! We know youre homelets talk! Megans voice was urgent. Please, just a minute.

Emily exchanged a look with James.

Should we let them in? At least hear them out?

Its your call, James shrugged. But remember our vowthis year is different.

Taking a deep breath, Emily descended the stairs. She opened the door to find Megan, her husband, and Lucy, each carrying bags of food and presents.

Happy NewYear! they chirped, forcing smiles.

Emilys tone was flat. What brings you here?

Why? Its tradition for us to drop by on the first of January, Lucy said, puzzled.

Tradition? Emilys irritation flared. Did any of you ever think a tradition could change? Especially one where one person does all the work while the rest just take?

Megan tried to push forward. We even brought champagne, just like you asked.

No, Emily shook her head. I didnt ask for this. I wanted you to understand that friendship isnt about taking, its about giving too.

What are you talking about? Megans husband barked. Were friends!

Friends? Emily laughed bitterly. Where were you when we needed help with the fence? When I was ill last winter and needed medicine? When Jamess car broke down and we had to fix it ourselves?

A heavy silence settled.

Enough, Emily said, standing tall. Go home. I dont want to start the year with old grudges and pretence. If you ever learn that friendship is a twoway street, call me. Until then well keep our distance.

Emily Lucy began, but Emily cut her off. Goodbye. She shut the door.

The engine roared away, doors slammed, tires crunched on the snow. Tears welled, but a strange lightness filled her chest.

James slipped behind her, arms around her waist. Im proud of you. I know it was hard.

Whats odd is I dont feel sad, Emily said, turning to him. Its like Ive dropped a weight Id been carrying for years.

Because all that time it wasnt friendship, it was a strange dependency. You were afraid to lose them, so you let them use you.

Emily nodded. Everything will be different now.

Exactly, James grinned. Now lets have breakfast. Weve got a whole year of plans, remember?

After the holidays, life slipped back into a comfortable rhythm. Emily deleted the old group chats, archived the photos of past gatherings, and threw herself into work. She felt freer, no longer calculating who would visit or what she had to provide.

Imagine, she said over a midJanuary dinner, we saved almost £50,000 on food, drink, and cleaning this year.

James chuckled. And thats just the money. Think of the time and energy we saved not juggling endless guests.

Emily swallowed a bite of roast chicken. I even enrolled in a photography course. Its something Ive wanted forever.

And I finally finished the workshop in the garage, James replied, smiling. Two weeks and I built the shelf Ive been dreaming about.

A knock at the door announced neighbor Mrs. Patel, holding a warm apple crumble.

Evening, neighbours! Thought Id bring over a slice.

Thanks a lot! Emily beamed. Come in for tea.

Over tea, Mrs. Patel mentioned she also liked photography and sometimes did shoots for childrens parties.

Would you like to go on a photo walk together sometime? she suggested. Winter landscapes are beautiful now.

Would love that, Emily replied, genuinely excited.

James, listening, mused, Weve lived on this road for five years and never really talked.

True, Emily agreed. Shes fascinating, and the crumble is divine!

A week later the three of them trekked through a frosty woodland, Mrs. Patel pointing out perfect lighting, teaching a few tricks. They returned chilled but thrilled, their camera bags full of stunning shots and plans for another outing.

In early February, Megan called. Emily stared at the incoming number before answering.

Hey, Megans voice trembled. Ive been thinking about what you said on NewYears. You were right. We took your hospitality for granted.

Emily listened.

Id like to apologise, Megan continued. But I dont think we can start over. That would mean returning to the same old dynamics.

Emily sighed. Ive thought a lot too. I cant go back to that pattern. My life has changed, and Im happy with it.

And we were friends for years

Yes, and Im grateful for the good times. Sometimes relationships just run their course.

The conversation ended, and Emily felt the last thread binding her to the past snap.

Later that month Mrs. Patel invited them to her birthday. A small, cosy gathering with her husband, teenage daughter, and a few neighbours.

Can I bring my famous apple crumble? Emily offered.

Please do! Mrs. Patel replied, delighted. Ill teach you my secret recipe.

The party was warm, games for the kids, adults swapping garden tips. Mrs. Patels garden yielded tomatoes, and she promised to share the planting methods.

James whispered as they walked home, No one got drunk, no one fought, no one had to stay up till dawn.

Emily laughed, And no mountain of dirty dishes.

Thats what healthy relationships look like, she said. Everyones comfortable, no debts, just being ourselves.

Back inside, Emily opened the photo folder on her phone, scrolling through old pictures of former friends. She pressed delete.

Are you sure? James asked.

Absolutely, she replied. You cant build a new life clinging to the old.

James pulled her into a hug. Me too. It feels like weve finally started living our own story, not the one others wrote for us.

Snow fell outside, a silent white curtain. Emily watched the flakes drift past the lamplight, pondering how sometimes you have to lose the familiar to discover the genuine.

The year turned again, December blanketing their village in fresh snow, the air thick with anticipation. Emily arranged new framed photos from her photography class on the mantlesunsets over the lake, misty forest dawns, spring blossoms, autumn colours.

Stunning! Mrs. Patel exclaimed, admiring the prints. They had helped her hang a new chandelier in her living room, a project James had finally tackled.

Emily smiled. If you hadnt invited me on that walk, Id never have taken this leap.

Mrs. Patel winked. Now you have a few students of your own.

Indeed, three months earlier Emily had started a beginners photography workshop. Six eager locals attended every weekend, learning about light, composition, and editing.

James appeared with a coffee, All set, the chandeliers up. Shall we have a cuppa?

Over tea they discussed plans for the upcoming streetwide NewYear celebration.

Were thinking of putting a big tree in the centre, serving mulled wine, a pot of tea, and a communal feast. Kids can have snowball fights, adults can chatno pressure, just joy.

Count us in! Emily replied. Ill set up a photo booth with fairy lights.

And Ill help with the tree, James added.

Later, while sorting through the attic, Emily uncovered a box labelled NewYear2024. Inside lay faded tinsel, homemade decorations from years gone by, and a photo album of gatherings with Megan, Lucy, and Tom. She opened it, a smile tugging at her lips as memories flickered.

What did you find? James asked, joining her.

Just a reminder of how far weve come, Emily said, closing the album. Look at everything thats blossomed since we let go.

James hugged her. Exactly. Youre a photographer now, I finally have a workshop running, and weve got real friendspeople who dont expect anything, who just enjoy each others company.

Emily glanced out the window; a fresh snowfall swirled in the streetlights.

You know what matters most? she said. Weve learned to say no when we dont want to, to choose who truly belongs in our lives.

James nodded. And weve discovered happiness in the little thingsquiet breakfasts, evening walks, the peace of being together without an audience.

She turned to him, I cant wait for this NewYear. A streetwide celebration, no obligations, just genuine cheer.

At that moment her phone buzzed with a group message from the neighbourhood: Friends! Tomorrow at noon were decorating the communal tree. Bring ornaments, lights, good spirits. After work, hot tea and cakes at my place!

Emily showed James the message.

Thats the real community spiritno strings attached, just goodwill.

And entirely by choice, not duty, James added.

They lingered by the window, watching the snow drift, each lost in thought. The old box labeled NewYear2024 still sat on the shelf, a quiet testament that sometimes you must let go of the past to make room for the future. True friendship, they now knew, wasnt about debts or dutiesit was about wanting to share joy and sorrow freely.

The next December would arrive, and they would greet it with open hearts, ready for whatever the new year might bring.

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